Welcome to A Thoughtful Death

If you have explored my website enough to find yourself on this page, chances are that you are curious about death or have witnessed an end-of-life experience. Afio mai, welcome.

I’m Neshia (she/her), an End-of-Life Consultant. I help people create thoughtful death experiences and meaningful grief rituals that honor the fullness of life. From getting necessary documents in order to walking beside a family (biological and/or chosen) through dying, death and remembering, I am dedicated to shifting death culture from one of chaotic avoidance to one of supported, brave empowerment.

This blog will feature pieces that I publish in order to provide education and greater death and grief awareness. From advance directives to community spotlights to ways to support someone facing a death, I hope to offer practical tools to increase our comfort with grief, death and the conversations that lead to meaningful change. Many of the articles will be pulled from the monthly newsletter I send out to subscribers. If you would like to read everything that I share with my mailing list, please sign up here so that you don’t miss out on resources, tips and tools for a thoughtful death.